Consent

...BUT DID SHE SAY YES? You find yourself in an intimate situation with a woman & you're afraid to verbally ask for consent as you don't want to ruin the mood, what do you do? You ask for consent, that's what you do. Do that and risk ruining the mood rather than ruin her life. If you're more concerned about ruining the mood then you're prioritizing catching your nut over assurance that she's onboard with what's about to happen, in essence you don't respect women enough to be sure to not sexually exploit them. Yes, no means no but no, that does not mean that everything else means yes. Just because she hasn't said no, as you didn't ask, that does not mean she's said yes. Gents the words, "...but she didn't say no" can no longer be an acceptable lifeline when dealing with allegations of sexual assault. So next time you convince yourself that "she didn't say no", ask yourself this, "...did she say YES?" If the answer to that question is not yes then you're not off the hook.

This is a very simple concept to keep in mind at all times when you're getting romantically physical with a woman. To make sure that you know how to draw the lines, read our article on Seduction vs Coercion.