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Tinder

Updated: Jun 16, 2020

Dating Apps are the epitome of "Lazy Game" but there's no denying the effectiveness they have when it comes to meeting women across your city - a very superficial effectiveness (we'll get to that soon enough).


How does it work?

Tinder is a dating app, which allows people to anonymously swipe either left or right on someone based on their picture, a small bio, and common interests. To swipe left is to reject a person, and to swipe right is to show an interest for matching.

If you both swipe right on your profiles then it will be a "match" which will enable you to chat with the person you matched with. Seems easy enough? Well...


Hookups

Tinder is notoriously known for "Hookups" as majority of the men joining this app are looking for one-night-stands or friends-with-benefits which is different to the goals most women have which are predominantly to make friends or find a romantic partner.

The issue that most men have is the ability to portray their intentions, thus coming off as creeps and perverts, eliminating any chance they had with the person they matched with.


Getting A Date

The rules of the game are simple: get the conversation of Tinder as soon as you can.

Unlike men, women always seem to have options when it comes to dating which is why you would find that there is a large percentage of women who uninstall the app only a few days after joining - men are seriously perverted in the chats and this makes women very uncomfortable.

If you are serious about getting her number, don't be that guy!


A few simple steps to follow:

Hit the floor running

You want to immediately start the conversation because, at this point, you already know that she likes how you look. Get her basic info on where she stays and why she's on this app. Tell her a bit about yourself, as well.

Find out what she likes doing

This is a crucial step in the process as it allow you to gauge what kind of first date you can plan out (Inviting her to your place is a complete NO at this early stage of the conversation).

Once she's told you what she likes, now would be a good time to let her in on your plans to meet with her in a public space.

Get Her Number

This step is pretty straight forward. Simply asked for her number so you can keep in touch outside the app.


Very Important Notes

  1. Absolutely no dick-pics! Under no circumstance is this acceptable.

  2. Do not ask for nudes!

  3. Do not give your number unless she requests it. She will probably never text first if you just throw her your digits without any context.

  4. Don't be weird. Before sending any text, ask yourself, "What kind of a response am I expecting here?"


Conclusion

There's a lot more that comes into play when it comes to online dating or even dating, in general. It is all based on your level of experience and what works for you. Over time, you will realize what you are comfortable with and you will stick to it. Texting multiple women at the same time may not be for everyone which is why I always advise that you apply your focus on those who have really peaked your interest.

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